They like to satisfy themselves. But they do not always want to do it alone. Why women want you to look at Solosex and what rules should note the

Okay, in porn, you will certainly need often seen as a woman spoil themselves. But honestly: How many times have you watched in real life of a woman masturbating? We do not say that you have watched her during foreplay in yourself. We talk about solo sex, the full program, starting with the warm-up through to orgasm - that you have not intervened. If you can count the number of voyeuristic experiences on one hand, you are not alone. Very few men often enjoy. And this is not surprising: after all, it stretches for masturbation mostly back or does it just now when the partner is not there. The idea to masturbate in front of the partner is connected to many women with shame. It requires self-confidence and trust, to show himself so openly in front of the partner.

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Your watch the masturbation, strengthens love and lust

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Why you should watch her masturbating

The first reason is obvious: We certainly agree that there is hardly guess there is a more beautiful sight in the bedroom, as a woman, the pampered ourselves. But in addition, you will benefit if you watch her in self-gratification. Couple showing regularly freely in front of the partners, report that they develop more confidence to partners and can better fall during sex because of it. Because the partners are confident, it is them more likely to talk openly about desires and fantasies. In summary, this means: If you watch her in masturbation, it strengthens your relationship. And there is another very crucial, advantage: If you follow the hands of the partner with the eyes, you can find out exactly where and how they will be affected the most - and apply the handles himself later. You really get in any porn. The way women meet in the sex film, rarely corresponds namely reality. Learn better by someone who really knows.

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So go to it: Talk to her about it 

If you want to watch your partner masturbating, you should not leave it to chance that. to wait until it is you're caught himself while masturbating and then to make their proposal a less good idea. But do not worry: It's not rocket science, to convince you of the idea. Although many women do not expect a sincere offer, are the topic but quite receptive to. After all, they know that they can only benefit if you watch closely in the solo program. But there are also women who are already thinking about it, to stroke in front of the partner to climax sink in shame in the ground. So there's no way around it: To find out if it is ready for Solosex before your eyes, you need to talk to her about it. Here's how: For example you can ask playfully if you think it would be exciting to see how you can meet and even in front of you affirm that you also would find it exciting to be able to watch it. They say so indirectly the loved ones that you are curious about them and their bodies and want to learn new things. Many women jump on it. However, if you refuse, you should not take it personally. There are still so many more opportunities to experiment in bed.

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So It Begins: Expect embarrassment

Do not be surprised if your sweetheart is the shy girl suddenly when she masturbates in front of your eyes. Even if the lady is sexually very open and regularly turns to the wild beast in bed, it could be that she is embarrassed. You know it sure how many other men also, itself: In the quiet little masturbation is not a thing and goes to the part quickly and easily, but if someone suddenly watching, that changes everything. Women have even often alone already problems to relax. It has nothing to do with you personally or their trust to you. A little tip: It takes the fear of the woman when you darken the room the first time something and not just sit and wait for it finally starts. Take your time. Touch them as usual. If you see that it starts to spoil yourself, take his hands slowly come back, but stay close to her.

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So it comes down to business: You'll be surprised

Yikes, what is she doing? Many women turn to the masturbation of methods that you might not have expected. While one woman uses only the fingers, the next a pillow vibrator or a shower head used for pleasure. The way how they use tools varies from woman to woman strong. It is stroked, rubbed down and tickled. All there and like. Accept whatever is doing the woman and do not expect any techniques that they know from porn or ex-partners. Ideally, they satisfied themselves as they would do it alone - because that which you can abschauen most.

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Look for: Hold your hands quietly

Hey, you've always wanted: The dearest is in your solo number entirely on - and you may officially watching. With excitement, you should not rush to the woman now. Intimate partner, it is often used to want to support the other anfzuassen or stimulation. Let it. Enjoy the show and sit back. Ideally, do not stare, but watching as a silent participant. Many women makes it particularly sharp when you let them give to the happy ending and not interfere. Of course, there is nothing to it if you are concerned with your best piece. But trust us, you will learn more if you give her full attention. They afterwards benefit enough from this private lesson.

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Pure eroticism: When you look at her Solosex, you may be Voyeur

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Go one step further heating it to

They are already more advanced? Then you can also heat up the matter next time something by it, for a little role-playing. for example, dominance and submission play. As the dominant part, you can order her example that you can not take from you her eyes as she masturbates. The other way round, the woman can you also excite, if you say for example: "Look carefully down. Touch you but must not me!" The touch ban gives the game a new spin. Important: These rules should discuss before.

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Get up close: Set behind her

If your partner even after several times still feel insecure, we know a method that helps her overcome the shyness a bit more. Sit behind her as she rests her back against her chest. Many women feel safe in this position while masturbating, because you can not look directly into her eyes and feel your warmth. If your partner wants it, you can be touching her breasts or kiss her neck gently. But stay zurüchaltend, it's still mainly about the fun of the partner with itself. While you have in this position not so clear view of the hotspots, but this perspective does have its appeal. And if your loved one can no longer contain himself, they make the Solosex so quite quickly a duet.

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When couples selbstbefriediegen of their partner, they can learn from each lot

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Learn from their masturbation: Let yourself be guided

From mere spectator, you can already learn a lot. To improve your quality as a lover, but you can be guided also by your private teacher: By place your hand gently on the her partner while she pampers herself, feel, at what pace, with what pressure and in which rhythm she likes it best. When it comes to orgasm, you feel so much intense as shakes her body. This is not only totally hot, you also get a better feel for the pleasure of the woman and learn what she likes. And that is what makes the mutual masturbation in the relationship so pleasurable and exciting.

Your watch the masturbation, strengthens love and lust. Good sex solo number can never replace, but it can provide insight into the sexuality of the partner that you would not have known otherwise - and so improve your horizons and the common sex.

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